Parable of Love; the meaning

Once upon a time, there was a man who loved a woman…

Characters – Husband, wife and the other man
Husband = Jesus
Wife = The Christian
The other man = Satan, the world and the sinful flesh

Jesus gave up everything for us to purchase us at a cost, his own life. After purchasing us he continues to walk with us and talk with us to woo us to himself. He shows his love for us in how he cares for us and ministers to our needs on a daily basis.

Satan, the world and the sinful flesh come along and offer us all the different “pleasures” that they can. They offer us success, pleasure, excitement, fun, everything we could possibly desire – or so we think.

The Christian after receiving the incredible love of Jesus begin to become bored and become enamoured with the temptations that Satan, the world and the sinful flesh offer us. We have a Saviour who offers us infinite perfect love, yet because we grow bored we begin to pursue the world instead.

In the end, we look like this foolish wife, who turns her back for a time on the one she loves in order to pursue another who will only crush the very life out of her. We pursue the devil, we pursue the world, we pursue our sinful flesh, and as we do that those very things begin to crush the life out of us.

The question that we are faced with in this parable is will we return to our husband, to Jesus Christ, putting off sin, the world and the devil and pursue him with all of our might. There is one who loves us perfectly, who gave up everything, will we continue to pursue the temporary lusts of this world in order to satisfy our flesh when there are perfect love and joy waiting for us? Surely C.S.Lewis was right when he said,

“It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.”


The Parable of Love

Once upon a time, there was a man who desperately loved a woman. There was nothing particularly attractive about this woman, nor was there anything particularly special about her. In fact, truth be told, she was just a plain woman. The man, however, loved this woman with all of his heart.  The man gave up everything he ever had in order to court and win the woman to himself, and he succeeded, the bride would be his for he won the heart of the woman.

As the years rolled by, the woman began to become bored with the man. She wanted something, someone, who was far more exciting, someone who was not so plain. Someone who was exciting and knew how to live. After her feelings and thoughts grew more troubled she began to become infatuated with finding someone who would fulfil all of her desires, someone who would give her what she really wanted.

One day as she was going about her day she went to town and ran into another man. This man was everything she thought an exciting type man would be, he wore trendy clothes, smelt rugged, was attractive to look at, even his walk was a walk of confidence and excitement. As she left town that day she couldn’t stop thinking about this anonymous man and the way he walked, looked and smelt.

A few weeks later she returned to town and ran into him again. She plucked up the courage to speak to him and he asked her to join her for coffee around the corner. As she met with him she felt like she had finally found what she was really looking for. For the next few months, she would meet with him for a coffee, week in and week out, delighting in his presence. As time rolled on she began to hate her husband, she could think nothing good of him, there was nothing attractive about him, nothing exciting, nothing good. She longed to be with this new man, this exciting man.


Her husband knew something was wrong, he began to notice that his wifes’ attention was elsewhere. At the table, in the lounge, in the bed, everywhere he went, she seemed to have no room in her head and heart for him. He loved her the same and reminded her of the love which still remained. He reminded her of all that he had given up to win her heart, all that it cost him, the very evidence that was upon his hands and feet. And yet she would have none of it, nothing would satisfy her desires other than the new man.

Over time, the new man became oppressive, he began to become controlling, he would get angry at the drop of a hat, he would demand things of her that she never dreamed that she would do. She began to hate herself, and yet she was addicted, trapped, with no hope left. Yet still, her husband remained. She longed for true love, yet was blinded by her passion for the new man.

The new man would beat her and she would come home with bruised eyes, yet still, her husbands love remained.

The new man would pleasure her and she would come home exhausted, yet still, her husbands love remained.

The new man would give her all she desired and then throw it in her face, yet still, her husbands love remained.

The wife desired the new man in spite of the horrid things he did, yet still, her husbands love remained.

The wifes’ husband would never leave, he would never stop loving, he would never stop pursuing. As long as he was alive and breathing, he would proceed to love her with a never-ending, never stopping love.

But what would the wife do? What would you do?

Psalm 33 – The Works of God

It is easy for us to become overwhelmed with the way the world is going as of late. We see the tragedies committed around the globe,  we see much turmoil and unrest, we see many things, but let us not be given over to despair, let us not be overwhelmed. But rather, let us remember that the LORD, he is God and he is still enthroned on high.

The Psalmist tells us that we should shout for joy to the LORD. Why? Because his word is upright and all his works are done in faithfulness. He says that the world is created by the LORD and that the LORD looks down upon it and his counsel stands forever, he does what is good and right to ensure the best out of his steadfast love. Why would we be given over to despair or fear if this is the case?

What we need is a better perspective on the world, when we see the tragedies and horrors of a sinful fallen world, we must remember that God is in control, that the LORD is working all things in accordance with his will, and that he acts out of his steadfast love. That means, when terrorists attack, Christians are murdered or we are reviled, the LORD is at work. Let us, instead of being filled with despair, be filled with praise for our God. For he has done all things wonderfully!

The Glory of Suffering

1  My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?…
3  Yet you are holy…
6  But I am a worm and not a man…
9  Yet you are he who took me from the womb…
12  Many bulls encompass me…
14  I am poured out like water…
16  For dogs encompass me…
19  But you, O LORD, do not be far off…
22  I will tell of your name to my brothers…
25  From you comes my praise in the great congregation…
27  All the ends of the earth shall remember…
29  All the prosperous of the earth eat and worship…  (Psalm, 22:1–31, ESV)

Suffering and hardships can be hard to bear. At times we may feel like giving up. We wonder if there is any purpose to what is happening in our life. And these are very normal responses to suffering, and the reason these are typical responses is that we are very sorely lacking a biblical response to suffering. David experienced much suffering in his life and with poetical language, he describes the emotions of a person suffering greatly. Yet even in his description hear the hope constantly present.

David says that he has been abandoned by God, that God is so far from saving him, that he cries day and night but gets no response. Many of us have felt this way in our darkest of times. But hear David’s response, it is not to give up hope, or complain, he says that God is holy and enthroned, that God is to be trusted and those that cry to him are rescued. And this goes back again, David describes himself and his situation and then declares his hope in God. It is a stunning, to and fro, where David describes his situation, his state of existence, yet declares his trust and hope.

How could David do this? The key is, that for David, his state of existence did not define his position before God. Although he was surrounded by enemies and felt presently abandoned, he knew that his eternal position before God was secure. What this enabled David to do was to see and grieve because of his position and yet maintain hope and trust in God. And this would climax in the later verses where he is enabled to call the congregations and peoples to come and worship his God. Note that his situation has not changed, we are not told that he has been delivered, but rather, his hope in the future fact that he will be delivered enables him to call all people to worship the LORD.

Is this not the exact same thing Jesus did? Jesus cried our “my God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Yet he had trust and hope in the fact that on the other side of the cross there was glory, this meant he could boldly continue, until the point of death, because he knew he would be vindicated by his Father. And because of Jesus, we have the same hope. Because Jesus endured our suffering and shame, we can endure all things in this world and look to our Father in Heaven who loves us, and know that though we remain in peril and plight now, a day will come when all things will be restored, where all wrongs will be made right.

The King and the Wicked

For you make him most blessed forever;
you make him glad with the joy of your presence.
For the king trusts in the LORD and through the steadfast love of the
Most high he shall not be moved. (Psalm 21:6-7, ESV)

You will destroy their descendants from the earth,
and their offspring from among the children of man.
Though they plan evil against you,
though they devise mischief, they will not succeed.
For you will put them to flight;
you will aim at their faces with your bows. (Psalm 21:10-12, ESV)

David tells us that the King:

  • Rejoices in the strength of the LORD
  • Exults in the LORD’s salvation
  • Trusts in the LORD
  • Receives his heart’s desire
  • Receives the request of his lips
  • Is blessed
  • Is given life
  • Shall not be moved
  • Receives glory through the LORD’s salvation
  • Receives splendour and majesty from the LORD
  • Is glad about the joy of the LORD’s presence

Is this not a description of the Lord Jesus Christ? Does any earthly king fit this description? There is only one man and one king who could ever fit this description and it is most assuredly Jesus. The wonder of all wonders is that we get included with him, that as our vicarious king, we are enabled to rejoice in the LORD’s strength, exult in the LORD’s salvation, trust in the LORD, receive our desires, receive our requests, are blessed, are given life, shall not be moved, receive glory through the LORD’s salvation, receive splendor and majesty, and are glad with the joy of the LORD’s presence. What a hope, what a joy, but consider the flip side, David tells us that the wicked man:

  • Will be found by the LORD
  • Hate the LORD
  • Will be swallowed in the LORD’s wrath
  • Will be consumed by fire
  • Their descendants will be destroyed
  • Will be put to flight
  • Will not succeed
  • Will have God aim at them with a bow

Do you look at this and shudder? Does it seem too much to bear? It is a terrifying idea, but it is a true idea. The reality is, David tells us that when we find our pleasure in the LORD and be satisfied by him, find our true longings in Jesus Christ we receive all these blessings from him. What we discover is that as we seek to be fulfilled by the LORD he does indeed fulfil us. But as long as we seek to find fulfilment in ourselves then we receive what we truly want, separation from God and his hand of wrath against us. There is no room for fence sitting, for seeking to pursue your own desires and receiving God’s blessing. It is one or the other, what will you choose?

Looking for a Heart’s Desire

May he grant you your heart’s desire
and fulfill all your plans!
May we shout for joy over your salvation,
and in the name of our God set up our banners!
May Yahweh (the LORD) fulfill all your petitions! (Psalm 20:4-5, ESV)

I think many of us have heard or said to another the word’s, “Remember, God wants to give you your heart’s desires!” However, for many of us who have heard that saying, the reality is, our desires are not given to us. Psalm 20 gives us a key to understanding why this is the case. Psalm 20 is a cry for the king to be blessed by Yahweh. And one of the cries of the people is that the king’s desires and plans would be fulfilled. This is where we realise our cries for our hearts desires to be met are so often wrong. We ask for the desires of our own hearts to be fulfilled. Yet what do the people ask for? They ask for the king’s desires.

This is the key, we need to be asking for the desires and plans for our king to be granted. And who is our king but the Lord Jesus Christ! If this was what controlled our requests, then our desires and requests will be answered. How can I emphatically say will? Because all of Yahweh’s plans are fulfilled in Christ, “For all the promises of God find their Yes in him.” (2 Corinthians 1:20)

Even when we turn to the ‘get your desires’ passage, Psalm 37:4, “he will give you the desires of your heart.” We find this truth is the same, consider what comes just before it, “Delight yourself in Yahweh” (Psalm 37:4). The point of the verse is that, if one finds his delight in Yahweh, then Yahweh will give him the desires of his heart. How can that be true? Because when one delights in Yahweh then he will find his desires begin to be conformed to the desires of God. Therefore, you will indeed gain your heart’s desire, because your heart’s desire will be for God. No one can say they find their delight in God while their desires are for earthly sinful pursuits.

Do you want to gain the desires of your hearts? Then you must come to the Lord Jesus Christ and find your desires in him, let Jesus be your desire, and when you do this, you will see wonderful things!